No matter how hard other people might pull you down, you always have choices to think about. You either think that it is the end of everything that you wish for and be a loser, or think that this is an opportunity for you to tell your self that I am not the kind of person that everybody thinks of. We are only limited by what others think but we know we are more than just an empty can of sardines.
Every person has the right not to tell everyone what they are up to as long as it does not offend some one or something else. We only have one Earth to live to think about the negativities that we have. Stay positive and be calm. Trust your self because you are the last person who could do that in case no one will.
Life is a mess, it will be messier. But it could be just like art and it could be a beautiful mess. It’s how you see things. It’s just a matter of perspective. And you can choose to see the beauty and meaning in just about any picture you see or create. It may be just simple as it is.